San Diego

San Diego’s queer life is centered in Hillcrest, home to LGBTQ+ nightlife, parades, and inclusive cafés. The city’s oceanfront setting and progressive culture make it one of California’s most welcoming queer communities.

Classy, Parisian-themed eatery featuring an opulent cocktail bar, plus happy hour & Sunday brunch.

Barrel & Board

Funky bar & bakery famed for range of creative cupcakes plus American comfort fare & dessert drinks.

Babycakes

Bright retailer stocking a broad range of fiction & non-fiction books for kids & adults.

Bluestocking Books

Cafe/bakery offering artisanal French breads & pastries, plus sandwiches, salads & breakfast fare.

Bread & Cie Bakery

Club San Diego is a sauna and bathhouse in San Diego. Located at 3955 Fourth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA.

Club San Diego

Small theater focuses on new & classic plays & musicals with LGBT themes.

Diversionary Theatre

Games, karaoke & more than 15,000 video clips create a fun & festive atmosphere at this gay bar.

Flicks

LGBT-friendly bar serves quirky cocktails & American comfort food amid female-inspired decor.

Gossip Grill

Light-filled New American restaurant offering seafood options, plus a bar with a daily happy hour.

Harley Gray Kitchen & Bar

LGBT hangout offering pints, growlers & kegs of house-brewed beer, plus stone-fired pizzas & wings.

Hillcrest Brewing Company

Mini-chain serving coffee beverages made from house-roasted beans, plus gluten-free breads & sweets.

Industrial Grind Coffee

Supper club run by drag queens has nightly live acts, a cafe menu, gospel brunch & kitschy decor.

Lips San Diego

Libélula Books & Co is a shop in San Diego. Located at 950 S 26th St, San Diego, CA 92113, USA.

Libélula Books & Co

Gay-friendly locals' hangout boasts an easygoing vibe & a back patio with pool tables.

Number One Fifth Avenue

Paru Tea Company is a restaurant in San Diego. Located at 7441 Girard Ave Suite B, La Jolla, CA 92037, USA.

Paru Tea Company

Relaxed gay bar with pool tables, a back patio, happy hours, & more.

Pecs Bar

Neighborhood hangout serving sweet & savory mini pies, coffee & craft beer in a casual space.

Pop Pie Co

Neighborhood bar for casual drinks & bites plus popular karaoke & other theme nights.

Redwing Bar & Grill

Featuring a full bar & DJ, this gay nightclub attracts energetic crowds looking to dance.

Rich's

Intimate gay bar featuring a pool table & nighttime events in a low-key atmosphere.

San Diego Eagle

Seasonal flavors of artisanal ice cream are scooped at a counter in a retro-inspired parlor setting.

Stella Jean's Ice Cream

One of the city's first openly gay bars continues to draw crowds with large cocktails & a patio.

The Hole in the Wall

Women's apparel brand known for its careerwear, dresses & separates in contemporary styles.

The Loft

A late-night celebration of queer desire at Club San Diego, running from 8PM to 4AM. The event offers a space to explore, indulge, and embrace your darker side in a mysterious and unapologetic atmosphere.

Noir Room

A laid-back, drop-in art session for all skill levels. Just bring your own supplies!

The Center - Youth Center

Ageless Art Group

San Diego LGBT Community Center

A casual, drop-in art session for all skill levels where you bring your own supplies.

Save the date for the 2026 Community Wall of Honor Induction Ceremony.

Community Wall of Honor Induction Ceremony

A ceremony to honor members of the LGBT community by inducting them into the Community Wall of Honor.

Attendees can expect to leave the training with greater knowledge in: Gender Identity, Pronouns, Gender Inclusive Language, Transitioning, Support.

Trans(Gender) 101 Training

A training session to learn about gender identity, pronouns, inclusive language, transitioning, and support for trans people.

The Lips Drag Dinner Show is a series of drag performances held at Lips Restaurant in San Diego, featuring various themed shows throughout the week, including Bingo, Divas, Glitz & Glam, Dragalicious Brunch, Gospel Brunch, and Showstopper Sundays. Each event requires reservations and offers dinner and show packages with prices ranging from $36.95 to $52.95. The shows include fabulous performances by talented drag artists, with some events featuring additional activities like bingo and gospel singing. Seating times vary by day, with most shows starting at 7:00 PM or earlier, and brunch events at 10:30 AM or 1:30 PM.

Lips Drag Dinner Show

The event 'BITCHY BINGO!' is scheduled for September 24, 2026. Details about the event's description, start and end times, venue, and host are not provided in the content. For more information, please refer to the original source.

Bitchy Bingo at Lips San Diego

A church-themed brunch with unlimited drinks and fabulous performances by Sister Nun-of-the-Above and the Sisters of Sequin.

Dragalicious Gospel Brunch at Lips San Diego

Sister Nun-of-the-Above & Sisters of Sequin

A fabulous drag show featuring electric performances by the Lips San Diego performers.

The Divas! at Lips San Diego

An evening of hit songs and fabulous divas, hosted by Lolita Von Teases.

Showstopper Sundays at Lips San Diego

An over-the-top glamour drag show with big hair, high heels, and fabulous performances.

Glitz & Glam at Lips San Diego

A Saturday brunch with outrageous fun, delicious entrées, and fabulous drag performances, including unlimited drinks.

Dragalicious Brunch at Lips San Diego

Friday night shows filled with glamour, big hair, high heels, and over-the-top performances.

GLITZ & GLAM

Sunday brunch with the Sisters of Sequin, unlimited drinks, and fabulous performances.

DRAGALICIOUS GOSPEL BRUNCH

Sister Nun-of-the-Above (Tootie) with the Sisters of Sequin

An evening with hit songs and fabulous divas, hosted by Lolita Von Teases.

SHOWSTOPPER SUNDAYS

Lolita Von Teases

A casual, drop-in art session for all skill levels where participants can bring their own supplies.

Saturday brunch with outrageous fun, delicious entrées, and fabulous performances with unlimited drinks.

Dragalicious Brunch

Even more over-the-top glamour with a 3-course dinner and show.

Glitz & Glam Saturday Night

Sunday brunch with the Sisters of Sequin, featuring unlimited drinks and fabulous performances.

Dragalicious Gospel Brunch

Sister Nun-of-the-Above (Tootie)

An evening of hit songs and fabulous divas hosted by Lolita Von Teases.

Showstopper Sundays

ICONIC Hits Night

The Loft San Diego

A party featuring DJ Will Soul playing iconic hits at The Loft San Diego.

A gear-themed party for men who love men, during Pride weekend.

San Diego Brut Bears Gear Party

An event scheduled for October 10, 2026, from 20:00 to 00:00, titled 'Red Dress Party San Diego'. Further details are not provided.

Red Dress Party San Diego

Join us for Pride Night at Snapdragon Stadium on October 14, 2026, starting at 19:00. Celebrate and support the LGBTQ+ community with a special event featuring entertainment, community engagement, and a vibrant atmosphere. The event aims to promote inclusivity and unity among fans and attendees.

Pride Night - October 14

This intergenerational exhibition showcases original artwork by LGBTQ+ older adult and youth artists, celebrating creativity, storytelling, and meaningful connections across generations.

Ageless Artists Art Show

An art show featuring original artwork by LGBTQ+ older adult and youth artists, celebrating creativity and intergenerational connections.

A party featuring DJ Will Soul playing iconic hits.

The Las Vegas PRIDE Festival 2025 is scheduled for October 18, 2025, from 3:00 PM to 10:00 PM PDT at the Desert Breeze Events Center, located at 8455 Kids Zone Pkwy, Las Vegas, NV 89147. The event celebrates diversity with a family-friendly atmosphere until 7 p.m., featuring entertainment, vendor exhibits, and activities including a wedding ceremony officiated by Toni James. Attendees can purchase tickets online, with free entry for children aged 5 and under, and discounted tickets for youth aged 6-17 available at the gate. The festival emphasizes a smoke and substance-free environment and welcomes pets on fixed leashes. Additional activities include health and wellness exhibits, sober areas, and opportunities to get involved through volunteering or sponsorship.

Las Vegas PRIDE Festival 2025

The BRUT Party in San Diego for 2026 is a vibrant event celebrating men who love men, featuring hot men, guest DJs, sexy dancers, and fetish wear. The party takes place on October 23, 2026, from 21:00 to 02:00 at EQ, a bar and live music venue in the Hillcrest community. The event promises a night of devilish delights with music by Deanne, with DJs Dan Darlington and guest DJs. Attendees can dance with the hottest guys from San Diego and beyond, in a thrilling Halloween-themed atmosphere. The venue, EQ, is located at 550 J Street, San Diego, CA 92101, USA.

Brut Party Venue

BRUT Party San Diego - Halloween Edition

A sexy Halloween-themed party for men who love men, featuring music and costumes.

The Latine Pride 2026 event is scheduled for October 24, 2026, from 14:00 to 19:00. It is a celebration of Latinx culture and pride, taking place in Toronto. The event aims to promote community, visibility, and cultural expression among Latinx individuals and allies. Details about the venue and host are not specified, but it is organized by YoHomo Events. Attendees can expect a vibrant gathering with cultural performances, music, and activities that highlight Latinx heritage and pride.

Latine Pride 2026

Join us at Gossip Grill on October 29, 2026, starting at 18:00 for $4 Well Cocktails, $4 16oz Drafts, and a special offer of an $11.50 Philly Cheesesteak & Fries. Enjoy a lively evening with great drinks and food in a vibrant atmosphere.

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

Dress up in your best costume and celebrate Halloween with us on Saturday, October 31st.

Bar 1924

Halloween Party

The San Diego Halloween Block Party on Hillcrest, also known as Nightmare on Normal Street, is an annual Halloween event in San Diego. It features local DJs, a main stage, dance floor, food trucks, outdoor bars, live entertainment, and a costume competition. The event takes place at the Pride Flag Plaza at Normal and University, with festivities starting at 5 pm and ending at 11 pm. It benefits the San Diego LGBT Community Center and Fabulous Hillcrest, and includes pet contests and VIP passes with exclusive perks. The event is part of the broader Halloween celebrations in San Diego's vibrant Hillcrest neighborhood, known for its gay-friendly atmosphere and nightlife.

Hillcrest Halloween Block Party

San Diego Halloween Block Party on Hillcrest

An international sex party for men hosted by CumUnion, featuring monthly play events in various locations worldwide. The upcoming event is scheduled for November 9, 2026, from 20:00 to 04:00.

CumUnion Sex Party

A comedy play that addresses bodily autonomy and community expectations with humor, written by Catya McMullen. The event runs from November 12 to December 6, 2026, with the opening night on November 21, 2026.

Arrowhead

Winners will be announced at National Philanthropy Day in November. This event celebrates nonprofit organizations that successfully champion Inclusion, Diversity, Equity, and Access.

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National Philanthropy Day

Association of Fundraising Professionals San Diego Chapter

A celebration of nonprofit organizations that promote inclusion, diversity, equity, and access, with winners announced on National Philanthropy Day.

Join us every Friday from 16:00 to 19:00 at Urban MO's Bar & Grill for our Martini Happy Hour! Enjoy delicious martinis for just $6.50, and from 14:00 to 19:00, indulge in well drinks and house wine for only $6.00. Big, bold, tasty, and perfectly priced—don't miss out on this weekly event.

Urban MO's Bar & Grill

Martini Happy Hour

Festival of Trees 2026 is the premier holiday event for the San Diego LGBTQ+ community and allies, featuring decorated holiday trees, a silent auction, and more. The event takes place at Rich's San Diego, located at 1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, on November 22, 2026, from 16:00 to 20:00.

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Festival of Trees 2026

Access the Cyber Center at The Center for computer and internet resources.

Behavioral Health Service office in Hillcrest

Cyber Center

An event organized by The San Diego LGBT Community Center to provide support and resources for individuals experiencing hate crimes and hate incidents. The event includes reporting mechanisms and informational resources to address hate-related issues.

STOP THE HATE – Report Hate Crimes & Incidents

Get tested for HIV and other sexually transmitted infections at The Center.

HIV & STI Screenings

Get your library card, check out LGBTQ+ books, or get recommendations from volunteers during the Center Library Open Day. The event runs Monday to Friday from 10:00 to 16:00, offering a welcoming space for community members to explore resources and connect.

Center Library Open Day

The San Diego LGBT Community Center offers free, confidential HIV and HCV testing along with STI screenings in a compassionate, sex-positive environment. Appointments can be scheduled by calling 619.487.9980 or emailing bethegeneration@thecentersd.org. The center is open Monday to Friday from 10 am to 7 pm and Saturdays from 10 am to 3 pm by appointment; walk-ins are accepted based on availability. Note that MPOX testing is not provided at this location. The event aims to promote self-care and connect individuals with healthcare resources.

Join us at The San Diego LGBT Community Center for our Cyber Center Open Day on December 29, 2026. The event runs from 10:00 AM to 6:00 PM and offers community members access to three free computer stations, with a one-hour time limit per person. Enjoy free printing services for important documents such as resumes, tax documents, and cover letters. Additional printing options are available at 10 cents per page. The Cyber Center is open Monday through Friday from 10:00 AM to 6:00 PM, excluding holidays, and on Saturdays from 10:00 AM to 3:00 PM, excluding holiday weekends.

Cyber Center Open Day

Join '50+ And Better Together' at The Center for a fun morning of trivia every Monday prior to the Congregate Meal Program. Hosted by volunteer Luciano, this event offers cognitive benefits such as improved memory, problem-solving, and critical thinking, along with social interaction to foster community among seniors. The event is free of charge.

Trivia with Friends

Join '50+ And Better Together' at The Center for a fun morning of trivia every Monday prior to the Congregate Meal Program. Hosted by volunteer Luciano, this event offers cognitive benefits such as improved memory, problem-solving, and critical thinking, along with social interaction to foster community among seniors. The event is free and provides an engaging way to connect and challenge your mind.

A member of The Center’s Crisis Services team will be available for drop-in times at South Bay Youth Center every Monday, from 11:00 to 15:00, offering support and services related to crisis intervention, domestic violence, homelessness, discrimination, youth support, mental health, healthcare, and transgender services. The event provides opportunities for case management, advocacy, referrals, and family support for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families. Located at 1180 Third Ave. Suite C1, Chula Vista, CA, the drop-in aims to assist those facing various crises and challenges within the LGBTQ+ community.

Crisis Services Drop-In at SBYC

A member of The Center’s Crisis Services team will be available for drop-in times at South Bay Youth Center every Monday, from 11:00 to 15:00, offering support such as case management, domestic violence assistance, homelessness resources, discrimination advocacy, youth crisis services, family support, mental health crisis referrals, healthcare support, and transgender services. The event provides a variety of crisis support and services for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families.

A community event offering free meals to individuals aged 60 and above, hosted by The San Diego LGBT Community Center in partnership with the County of San Diego and Jewish Family Service. The meals are served Monday through Friday from 11:30 am to 12:30 pm at The Center, located at 3909 Centre St, San Diego, CA. Reservations are required by 3:00 pm the day before by calling (858) 637-3230. Meals can also be purchased by those under 59 years old.

Congregate Meals – For Those 60 Years or Older

Join us for Community Mondays and Fridays at the South Bay Youth Center in Chula Vista! This in-person event runs from 12:00 to 19:00 and features programs, community tours, support groups, mental health resources, and activities such as arts & crafts, video games, and access to gender-affirming supplies. The event provides a safe and affirming LGBTQI+ space with resources including hormone therapy referrals, name and gender marker changes, and basic needs support.

SBYC Monday – Community Day

This in-person class for older adults aims to improve balance, strength, and flexibility while helping participants maintain independence. The sessions are suitable for all levels, with exercises that can be performed sitting or standing. The class provides a fun and productive workout environment.

Feeling Fit Classes (In Person)

Join us for the Golden Lotus Discussion Group, a welcoming and affirming space designed specifically for Asian American and Pacific Islander (AAPI) individuals living with HIV. This in-person support group provides a safe environment for sharing experiences and building community. Facilitated by Alexander Vo (she, he, they), AAPI Community Engagement Coordinator. The event occurs every Monday from 5-6 PM at The Center, 3909 Centre St, San Diego. For more information, visit https://thecentersd.org/events/golden-lotus/.

Golden Lotus Discussion Group

An online support group for individuals who have experienced personal loss. Facilitated by volunteers, this group provides a safe and nonjudgmental space to share experiences and receive support. The session occurs weekly on Mondays from 17:00 to 18:30 via Zoom.

Grief & Loss – Discussion Group (Virtual)

A support group for male-identified individuals focusing on relapse prevention related to methamphetamine use. The meetings are held weekly on Mondays from 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm at the Behavioral Health Service office in Hillcrest, San Diego.

Meth Relapse Prevention (In Person)

Celebrate the New Year with a vibrant party featuring DJ Rockstar Aaron, Nina Bel Vande, DJ Junior the Disco Punk, Go Go Boys, Fire Play, and Free Tarot Readings. No cover before 10 PM, $10 after 10 PM, with complimentary glass of bubbles included.

New Year's Eve Party at Urban Mo's

Experience the biggest gay New Year's Eve party in San Diego at Rich's nightclub, featuring two rooms with four DJs, champagne, and a massive balloon drop at midnight. The event starts at 8:00 PM and ends at 4:00 AM, celebrating in style with hundreds of attendees from San Diego and beyond.

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Ageless Art Group

Community Wall of Honor Induction Ceremony

Trans(Gender) 101 Training

Lips Drag Dinner Show

Bitchy Bingo at Lips San Diego

Dragalicious Gospel Brunch at Lips San Diego

The Divas! at Lips San Diego

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