San Diego

San Diego’s queer life is centered in Hillcrest, home to LGBTQ+ nightlife, parades, and inclusive cafés. The city’s oceanfront setting and progressive culture make it one of California’s most welcoming queer communities.

Classy, Parisian-themed eatery featuring an opulent cocktail bar, plus happy hour & Sunday brunch.

Barrel & Board

Funky bar & bakery famed for range of creative cupcakes plus American comfort fare & dessert drinks.

Babycakes

Bright retailer stocking a broad range of fiction & non-fiction books for kids & adults.

Bluestocking Books

Cafe/bakery offering artisanal French breads & pastries, plus sandwiches, salads & breakfast fare.

Bread & Cie Bakery

Club San Diego is a sauna and bathhouse in San Diego. Located at 3955 Fourth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA.

Club San Diego

Small theater focuses on new & classic plays & musicals with LGBT themes.

Diversionary Theatre

Games, karaoke & more than 15,000 video clips create a fun & festive atmosphere at this gay bar.

Flicks

LGBT-friendly bar serves quirky cocktails & American comfort food amid female-inspired decor.

Gossip Grill

Light-filled New American restaurant offering seafood options, plus a bar with a daily happy hour.

Harley Gray Kitchen & Bar

LGBT hangout offering pints, growlers & kegs of house-brewed beer, plus stone-fired pizzas & wings.

Hillcrest Brewing Company

Mini-chain serving coffee beverages made from house-roasted beans, plus gluten-free breads & sweets.

Industrial Grind Coffee

Supper club run by drag queens has nightly live acts, a cafe menu, gospel brunch & kitschy decor.

Lips San Diego

Libélula Books & Co is a shop in San Diego. Located at 950 S 26th St, San Diego, CA 92113, USA.

Libélula Books & Co

Gay-friendly locals' hangout boasts an easygoing vibe & a back patio with pool tables.

Number One Fifth Avenue

Paru Tea Company is a restaurant in San Diego. Located at 7441 Girard Ave Suite B, La Jolla, CA 92037, USA.

Paru Tea Company

Relaxed gay bar with pool tables, a back patio, happy hours, & more.

Pecs Bar

Neighborhood hangout serving sweet & savory mini pies, coffee & craft beer in a casual space.

Pop Pie Co

Neighborhood bar for casual drinks & bites plus popular karaoke & other theme nights.

Redwing Bar & Grill

Featuring a full bar & DJ, this gay nightclub attracts energetic crowds looking to dance.

Rich's

Intimate gay bar featuring a pool table & nighttime events in a low-key atmosphere.

San Diego Eagle

Seasonal flavors of artisanal ice cream are scooped at a counter in a retro-inspired parlor setting.

Stella Jean's Ice Cream

One of the city's first openly gay bars continues to draw crowds with large cocktails & a patio.

The Hole in the Wall

Women's apparel brand known for its careerwear, dresses & separates in contemporary styles.

The Loft

An event held at Gossip Grill featuring brunch from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm, followed by rotating DJs and special events from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm. The event includes happy hour from 2:00 pm to 6:00 pm, with $5 seltzers available all day. Sunday night specials run from 7:00 pm to 10:00 pm, with rotating DJs and sound. The event is sponsored by Ritual and is for guests aged 21 and over after 2:00 pm on Saturday and Sunday.

Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays

Join us for the Cabaret Drag Brunch at Gossip Grill on April 12, 2026. Seating begins at 11:00 am, with the show starting at 11:45 am. Tickets are $13, and a minimum spend of $20 per person is required, including food and beverages. All guests with reservations must arrive before noon; late arrivals may forfeit their reservation without a refund. Please call the restaurant if you need to cancel or are running late.

Cabaret Drag Brunch

An R&B music event featuring DJ Jocelin, scheduled for April 12, 2026, from 15:00 to 19:00 at Gossip Grill in San Diego. The event promises a lively atmosphere with curated R&B beats, providing an engaging experience for attendees. For more details, visit the event page.

69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin

An event scheduled for April 12, 2026, starting at 21:00 and ending at 02:00, hosted in Toronto. The event details include a visual element, but specific image URL is not provided. The event is associated with YoHomo Events, but no specific host or location name and address are available from the provided content.

STUNT

Don't worry if you missed it, we'll be back, Sundays.

Stunt Sundays

Rich's San Diego

A recurring drag show event called Stunt Sundays held at Rich's San Diego.

Celebration of Industry Day with special shot deals and event specials.

Monday Industry Day at The Loft

Join your host Joey Adams for Karaoke Tuesdays at Gossip Grill on April 14, 2026, from 19:00 to 23:00. Enjoy special offers including $2.50 shot specials, $4.00 well cocktails, and $3.00 tacos after 6pm. The event is held at Gossip Grill located at 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103.

Karaoke with Joey Adams

Tequila Tuesday & Mezcal at The Loft San Diego. The place to be...

Tequila Tuesday & Mezcal

The Loft San Diego

A party featuring tequila and mezcal at The Loft San Diego.

Seltzzer Wednesday & Ciders

A party featuring seltzers and ciders at The Loft San Diego.

An exclusive screening of the documentary 'La Perla Victoria; Desde un Corazón Trans' will be held at the San Diego LGBT Center Auditorium. The event includes a live Q&A with Victoria Castro, light refreshments, and a drag show. Attendees are encouraged to bring cash for donations supporting T4T Empowerment’s Trans Leadership Development programs. Suggested donation tickets are $10–$25, but no one will be turned away for lack of funds. The event aims to support the trans community and celebrate trans stories.

La Perla Victoria SD Screening

A fundraising event partnering with the San Diego House Rabbit Society, featuring bingo games, prizes, and raffles. Doors open at 6:00 PM, with bingo starting at 6:30 PM. Tickets are $20, including three bingo cards and a $10 donation to the San Diego House Rabbit Society. Raffle tickets can be purchased on-site or via email for virtual participation. The event aims to support rabbit rescue efforts.

Bingo Gone Bonkers: Bingo For Bunnies Fundraiser

Join us for a vibrant celebration of music, food, and community. Featuring live performances from local bands and food trucks.

Balboa Park

Spring Music Festival

San Diego Events Co.

A celebration of women's achievements and empowerment.

The Power of Women

Women Empowerment Organization

Join San Diego’s crankiest drag queen Mariam T. every Wednesday for Bingo Gone Bonkers at Gossip Grill. The event takes place on April 15, 2026, starting at 18:00 and ending at 21:00. Enjoy dinner and bingo with options like 1 board for $5 or 3 boards for $10, along with specials such as $5 pussy punch, $5 Bud Light, and $3 WAP shots. A minimum spend of $20 per guest is required. This is an 18+ event, with age restrictions after 2pm on weekends. The venue offers a lively atmosphere with food, drinks, and entertainment.

Bingo Gone Bonkers

Join a safe and inclusive discussion group for aromantic and asexual folx, as well as those questioning. Talk about life, your identity, resources and more! This group meets virtually on Zoom.

Online via Zoom

Aromantic and Asexual Discussion Group

San Diego LGBT Community Center

A virtual discussion group for aromantic and asexual people and those questioning their identities.

Join us for LateHER Happy Hour at Gossip Grill on April 15, starting at 20:00. Enjoy $3 off the full food menu from 20:00 to 22:00, along with buy one, get one tokens for the next visit. The event takes place at Gossip Grill, located at 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103.

LateHER Happy Hour

Join us for TGIW! at Gossip Grill on April 15, starting at 9:00 pm. Enjoy Bingo Gone Bonkers with Mariam T from 6-8 pm, followed by DJ Jocerlyn spinning tunes from 9 pm until close. The event features $6 Pussy Galore shots, $7 Pussy Galore cocktails, and LateHER Happy Hour from 8 pm to close with BOGO tokens on selected drinks. This is a 21+ event after 2 pm, with no cover charge.

TGIW! at Gossip Grill

One-on-one digital literacy support to help you feel more confident and connected with your smartphone, tablet, or computer.

Tech on the Go: Google Photos and Google Maps

A session providing one-on-one help to improve digital skills and confidence with smartphones, tablets, or computers.

A community runway show and celebration hosted by the San Diego LGBT Community Center, featuring politically charged fashion categories: 'Eat the Rich', 'AI Apocalypse', and 'We Shall Over-Accessorize'. Attendees can participate by walking the runway in bold looks, with gift card prizes awarded by a judges panel. The event includes free food, aims to celebrate trans and queer joy as a radical act, and promotes community empowerment. It takes place at Urban MO’s Bar & Grill in San Diego.

Urban MO's Bar & Grill

Serving FACE: Runway for Revolution

A community runway show featuring bold fashion, performances, and opportunities for civic engagement.

Free and confidential HIV testing is provided by Family Health Centers of San Diego at Club San Diego. The testing occurs every first Wednesday and third Friday of the month, from 8:00 PM to 11:30 PM, in Suite 130. The service is quick, simple, and private.

Free HIV Testing

Join us for a free night of boot scootin' fun at the Out West Queer Prom, a safe and celebratory space for youth aged 13-18. The event features a themed dress code (Pink Pony Club), a free plated meal, dancing with a DJ and lights show, quiet activities, a photo booth, and opportunities to make new friends. The event is organized by North County LGBTQ Resource Center and will be held at Bellagala Events, Inc in San Marcos, CA, on April 17, 2026, from 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM. Due to limited capacity, adult chaperones are limited, but staff and volunteers will ensure the safety of all attendees. For questions or to accompany a youth, email projectyouth@northcountycenter.org.

Out West Queer Prom

A themed dinner event featuring entertainment and socializing.

Supper Club

Join us for the Queer Salsa Social: ¡Qué Dulce Ritmo! on April 17, 2026, at 7:00 pm. This event features a salsa musicality workshop led by a talented instructor from LA, focusing on clave patterns and their interpretation in salsa music. After the workshop, enjoy a beginner-friendly salsa and bachata social to practice your new skills with DJ entertainment. The event is organized by Queer Latin Dance SD and is queer-friendly. Wear comfortable clothing and Latin dance shoes are recommended. Refreshments and treats will be provided, and attendees are welcome to bring snacks to share. The cost is $20 for early bird registration (ending April 5) and $25 for the full experience, including class and social dancing.

Queer Salsa Social: ¡Qué Dulce Ritmo!

Join us for Supper Club on April 17, 2026, starting at 19:00. This event transforms the first Sunday night of each month into an unforgettable evening featuring special food and drink menus, curated experiences, and vibrant entertainment. Expect a cozy atmosphere with entertainment options such as live performances, musicians, burlesque, or drag, providing a unique and enjoyable experience for friends and strangers alike.

Beer Friday Drafts

A social party featuring beer at The Loft San Diego.

A live singing show featuring hilarious parodies of artists like Taylor Swift, Tina Turner, U2, Broadway, Celine Dion, Elton John, and more. The event is scheduled for April 18, 2026, starting at 19:00.

Sherry Vine’s Dirty Blonde

Join the NTA (No Towels Allowed) event at Club San Diego, a celebration promoting natural beauty and personal expression through nudity and freedom. The event encourages attendees to shed inhibitions in a safe, inclusive environment that embraces diversity. It takes place from April 18 at 8:30 PM to April 19 at 4:30 AM, inviting guests to experience a unique and liberating atmosphere. Attendees are advised to leave their towels in their rooms or lockers.

NTA (No Towels Allowed)

Weekly cornhole event hosted by Pride Sports San Diego, starting April 20. Join for fun and community at Pecs every Monday night.

Cornhole Monday Nights at Pecs - Season 11

Pride Sports San Diego

A safe, inclusive virtual space to talk about identity, life, resources, and more. This group welcomes aromantic and asexual folks, as well as anyone who is questioning.

Virtual on Zoom

Aromantic & Asexual Discussion Group

A virtual discussion group for aromantic and asexual people to talk about identity, life, and resources.

Dine Out at Mariposa Ice Cream and 50% of your check will be donated to HIV services and prevention programs across San Diego County through The San Diego LGBT Community Center.

Dining Out For Life San Diego

A day when many local restaurants and shops donate part of their sales to support health and wellness programs for the LGBT community in San Diego.

Participating restaurant for Dining Out For Life San Diego. A portion of your check on April 23 will be donated to The Center's health and wellness programs.

Cellar Hand

Mimoza - Dining Out For Life

A restaurant is participating in a charity event where a portion of your bill will support LGBTQ+ health and wellness programs.

Tech on the Go: Google Calendar and Google Meet

A one-on-one session to help you improve your digital skills with your smartphone, tablet, or computer.

A lively dance event with vibrant lights, music, and a large crowd celebrating LGBTQ+ pride and community.

Dancing Night at Rich's San Diego

A social party at The Loft San Diego featuring beer drafts.

Club San Diego hosts the event CumUnion on April 25, 2026, starting at 8:00 pm and ending at 4:00 am on April 26, 2026. The event promises an exhilarating experience focused on exploring desire and sensuality in a safe, inclusive environment. Attendees can expect an electrifying atmosphere fueled by pulsating beats, with free goodies included as part of admission. The venue is designed to ignite senses and encourage the celebration of human desire's diverse facets.

CumUnion

Club San Diego hosts Temptation Tuesday, an inclusive event celebrating trans women, emphasizing empowerment, safety, and community. The event features comprehensive inclusivity measures, staff training, and collaboration with LGBTQ+ organizations to ensure a respectful environment. It aims to foster love, celebration, and empowerment for all attendees.

Temptation Tuesday

Join us every Sunday at Urban MO’s Bar & Grill for an unforgettable Sunday Funday hosted by Mariam T and Glitz Glam. Enjoy rotating DJs including DJ Miss Dust, DJ KinkyLoops, DJ Autumn Lelani, DJ Mike Orion, and Junior the Disco Punk, providing the best beats to keep the party lively all day. The event features birthday celebrations, Virgin Sacrifices, booty-shaking contests, fun games, and prizes in a vibrant atmosphere. The event runs from 14:00 to 18:00 on April 29, 2026.

Sassy Sunday Funday

Join us for Karaoke Sunday at Urban MO's Bar & Grill in San Diego! Every Sunday from 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM, enjoy free karaoke hosted by NIKO. Bring your friends, sing your favorite songs, and have a great time in a lively, welcoming atmosphere.

Karaoke Sunday with NIKO

An art social event titled 'Donde El Color Se Vuelve Espíritu' taking place in Toronto on April 29, 2026, starting at 18:30. The event is a gathering focused on the transformative power of color in art, encouraging community engagement and artistic expression. Attendees can expect a vibrant atmosphere with interactive art installations, live demonstrations, and opportunities to connect with local artists. The event aims to celebrate cultural diversity and the spiritual essence of color through immersive experiences. For more details, visit the event page.

Art-Social: Donde El Color Se Vuelve Espíritu

Tech on the Go: Open Session, One-on-One Technology Questions

A session offering personalized help with using smartphones, tablets, and computers.

In partnership with San Diego Pride, the Padres host Out at the Park on Friday, May 1, 2026, at 4:00 pm at 100 Park Blvd, San Diego. The event features a night of celebration with the San Diego LGBTQ+ community, including a game against the White Sox, a commemorative Padres hat, and a $10 donation to San Diego Pride or a sports league of your choice. Attendees can enjoy a pregame happy hour in Gallagher Square with Party in the Park, presented by Southwest Airlines, from gates opening until first pitch (approximately 4-6:30 PM). Tickets include game access and special memorabilia.

Out at the Park 2026

Enjoy an outdoor baseball game with themed activities and a vibrant atmosphere at Petco Park, celebrating LGBTQ+ pride with a special theme game.

Petco Park

Out at the Park: Padres vs. San Diego Padres

San Diego Padres

A magical night of dancing, live band 'The Pizza Keys', DJ Quinn & DJ Mich, drag MC, food & drinks, VIP lounge! For ages 21+.

Under the Rainbow: A Not-So-Straight Prom

Join the San Diego Bear Night on Saturday, May 2, 2026, from 9:00 PM to 2:00 AM at EQ (formerly The Merrow) located at 1271 University Avenue. This event is the premier party for bears, lovers, cubs, and the LGBTQ+ community, featuring top DJs, sexy cubs, outdoor bars, cruising, dancing, and a lively atmosphere. Enjoy food options like hot dogs, spring rolls, and burgers in the parking lot lounge. The event is part of the monthly series and coincides with San Diego Pride celebrations, offering an exciting night of music, socializing, and fun.

Bear Night San Diego 2026

The San Diego Bear Night is the top party for bears, lovers, cubs, and more, offering a fun-filled experience.

Bear Night San Diego

Andrew Stevens

The event is the primary elections held on May 4, 2026, in San Diego County. Voters can participate in in-person voting at designated Vote Centers or drop-off mail-in ballots at specified locations. The San Diego LGBT Community Center will serve as a polling station from May 30 to June 2. The event encourages voter participation in local and state elections, including the gubernatorial primary on June 2, 2026.

Vote With Pride- Primary Elections

An inclusive prom event hosted by SD United Youth Collective, featuring various ticket options that include entry, drinks, bites, drag shows, swag bags, VIP access, and hotel accommodations. The event takes place at 643 G St, San Diego, CA 92101, USA.

A sexy party for men who love men, featuring music, daddies, bears, and more.

BRUT Party San Diego

Join the 18th annual San Diego Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast on May 22, 2026, from 07:00 to 09:30 at the Town and Country Resort in Mission Valley, San Diego. This event coincides with Harvey Milk's birthday and is organized by the San Diego Harvey Milk Breakfast Organizing Committee. Tickets will be available for purchase starting February 2026.

Town and Country Resort

San Diego Harvey Milk Breakfast

Join us for the annual Santee Pride Walk and Festival on Saturday, May 30, 2026. The Pride Walk begins at 9:00 AM and features a roughly 2-mile flat paved loop down Mission Gorge, starting and ending at Santee United Methodist Church. The festival runs from 10:00 AM to 4:00 PM in the church's parking lot, offering live entertainment, kids activities, and booths from vendors and community organizations. This family-friendly event is free to attend.

Santee Pride Walk & Festival

The event features two major parties during San Diego Pride weekend: the SubWOOFer Party on Friday, starting at 9 PM with go-go bears, shot specials, food vendors, and outdoor lounge; and the Furrageous Party on Saturday, also starting at 9 PM, hosting nearly 1,000 attendees with three levels, a full food menu, and the woofiest, burliest atmosphere. Both events are held at venues to be confirmed, with additional activities including guest DJs, outdoor lounges, and VIP options. The event promotes staying close to the downtown district and recommends early hotel bookings due to high demand.

Furrageous & SubWOOFer San Diego Bear Pride Weekend

A gear-themed party during Comic-Con weekend for all men who love men.

San Diego Brut Bears Gear Party

The Center's LGBTQ+ Luminaries Lunch is returning.

LGBTQ+ Luminaries Lunch

A community lunch event celebrating LGBTQ+ leaders and allies.

The Pride Block Party in San Diego, organized by San Diego Pride, is a community event that traditionally kicks off Pride celebrations on Pride Friday night. However, the 2025 event is on hiatus due to construction on Normal Street, which affects Pride activities including the parade. The event aims to reimagine and return in future years, with details to be announced.

Pride Block Party San Diego

A gear-themed party for men who love men during Comic-Con.

The event is scheduled for July 11, 2026, starting at 21:00 and ending at 04:00. It is part of San Diego Pride celebrations, featuring a block party and a pride music festival in the Hillcrest area. The event aims to celebrate LGBTQ+ community with music, entertainment, and community gathering.

San Diego Pride 2026 Hillcrest Block Party & Pride Music Fest

San Diego Gay Pride 2026 is a major LGBTQ+ event taking place from July 15 to July 19, 2026, in San Diego. The festival features a variety of activities including the Spirit of Stonewall Rally, the Pride Block Party in Hillcrest, and the San Diego Pride Parade. Highlights include the Leather realm, Free Rainbow Zone, Hip-Hop area, Flag parade, and the San Diego Pride Music Festival held on July 18 and 19. The event celebrates LGBTQ+ community, diversity, and pride with numerous parties, parades, and cultural activities across neighborhoods like Hillcrest, North Park, and Downtown San Diego. Attendees can enjoy a vibrant lineup of entertainment, community gatherings, and inclusive festivities.

San Diego Gay Pride 2026

Join the vibrant San Diego Pride celebrations with a colorful parade and lively festival featuring performances, vendors, and community activities.

San Diego Pride Parade and Festival 2026

Join the vibrant celebration of LGBTQ+ pride with the San Diego Pride Parade and Festival. Enjoy colorful parades, live performances, and community activities.

San Diego Pride

Annual comic book and pop culture convention featuring panels, exhibitions, and merchandise from various entertainment genres.

San Diego Comic-Con 2025

Join the vibrant celebration of LGBTQ+ pride with a festival featuring live performances, parades, and community activities.

San Diego Pride Festival

The Pride of Hillcrest Block Party in San Diego is a vibrant event taking place at Pride Plaza, marking the kickoff for San Diego Pride weekend each July. The event features food trucks, a beer garden, craft cocktails, go-go dances, a DJ dance party, a giant Ferris wheel, and international talent. It celebrates the culture, history, diversity, and LGBTQ+ community of San Diego's colorful Hillcrest neighborhood. The party is scheduled for Friday, July 17, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 11:00 PM, with activities including a Stonewall Rally at 6:00 PM and a dance party under the flag at 7:00 PM. The venue is located at 1500 University Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103, at the Hillcrest Pride Flag in Pride Plaza.

Pride of Hillcrest Block Party San Diego

San Diego Pride Festival featuring Krewella performing Saturday.

Brüt

San Diego Pride Festival - Krewella

San Diego Pride Festival featuring Marina Diamandis closing on Sunday.

San Diego Pride Festival - Marina Diamandis

A community Pride festival in Balboa Park featuring a performance by Marina Diamandis.

Join us for a night of Pride, community, and impact as the sandiegomojovb takes on Indy Ignite. $5 from every ticket purchased through the link goes directly to The San Diego LGBT Community Center. The first 250 fans who purchase through the link will receive a custom Mojo Pride Rally Towel!

Viejas Arena

Mojo Pride Night

A community basketball game celebrating Pride and supporting the San Diego LGBT Community Center.

San Diego

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