San Diego

San Diego’s queer life is centered in Hillcrest, home to LGBTQ+ nightlife, parades, and inclusive cafés. The city’s oceanfront setting and progressive culture make it one of California’s most welcoming queer communities.

Classy, Parisian-themed eatery featuring an opulent cocktail bar, plus happy hour & Sunday brunch.

Barrel & Board

Funky bar & bakery famed for range of creative cupcakes plus American comfort fare & dessert drinks.

Babycakes

Bright retailer stocking a broad range of fiction & non-fiction books for kids & adults.

Bluestocking Books

Small theater focuses on new & classic plays & musicals with LGBT themes.

Diversionary Theatre

Games, karaoke & more than 15,000 video clips create a fun & festive atmosphere at this gay bar.

Flicks

LGBT-friendly bar serves quirky cocktails & American comfort food amid female-inspired decor.

Gossip Grill

Cafe/bakery offering artisanal French breads & pastries, plus sandwiches, salads & breakfast fare.

Bread & Cie Bakery

Light-filled New American restaurant offering seafood options, plus a bar with a daily happy hour.

Harley Gray Kitchen & Bar

Club San Diego is a sauna and bathhouse in San Diego. Located at 3955 Fourth Ave, San Diego, CA 92103, USA.

Club San Diego

Mini-chain serving coffee beverages made from house-roasted beans, plus gluten-free breads & sweets.

Industrial Grind Coffee

LGBT hangout offering pints, growlers & kegs of house-brewed beer, plus stone-fired pizzas & wings.

Hillcrest Brewing Company

Libélula Books & Co is a shop in San Diego. Located at 950 S 26th St, San Diego, CA 92113, USA.

Libélula Books & Co

Paru Tea Company is a restaurant in San Diego. Located at 7441 Girard Ave Suite B, La Jolla, CA 92037, USA.

Paru Tea Company

Supper club run by drag queens has nightly live acts, a cafe menu, gospel brunch & kitschy decor.

Lips San Diego

Neighborhood hangout serving sweet & savory mini pies, coffee & craft beer in a casual space.

Pop Pie Co

Gay-friendly locals' hangout boasts an easygoing vibe & a back patio with pool tables.

Number One Fifth Avenue

Neighborhood bar for casual drinks & bites plus popular karaoke & other theme nights.

Redwing Bar & Grill

Featuring a full bar & DJ, this gay nightclub attracts energetic crowds looking to dance.

Rich's

Relaxed gay bar with pool tables, a back patio, happy hours, & more.

Pecs Bar

Intimate gay bar featuring a pool table & nighttime events in a low-key atmosphere.

San Diego Eagle

Seasonal flavors of artisanal ice cream are scooped at a counter in a retro-inspired parlor setting.

Stella Jean's Ice Cream

One of the city's first openly gay bars continues to draw crowds with large cocktails & a patio.

The Hole in the Wall

Women's apparel brand known for its careerwear, dresses & separates in contemporary styles.

The Loft

Free meals to individuals aged 60 and above at The Center.

The Center - Youth Center

Congregate Meal

A free meal event for people aged 60 and above at The Center.

Join San Diego’s crankiest drag queen Mariam T. every Wednesday for Bingo Gone Bonkers at Gossip Grill. The event takes place on February 25, 2026, starting at 18:00 and ending at 21:00. Participants can enjoy dinner and bingo with options like 1 board for $5 or 3 boards for $10. Specials include $5 pussy punch, $5 Bud Light, and $3 WAP shots, with a minimum spend of $20 per guest. The event is for guests aged 18 and over.

Bingo Gone Bonkers

Join us for LateHER Happy Hour at Gossip Grill on February 25, starting at 20:00. Enjoy $3 off the full food menu from 20:00 to 22:00, along with a Buy One, Get One Token offer for your next visit. The event takes place at Gossip Grill located at 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103. The event is scheduled to start at 20:00 and has no specified end time. For more details, visit the event page or contact Gossip Grill.

LateHER Happy Hour

The event 'TGIW!' takes place at Gossip Grill on February 25, starting at 21:00. The event features DJ Jocerlyn performing from 9 pm until close, with no cover charge. There will be special drink promotions including $6 two pussy galore shots and $7 one pussy galore cocktails. Additionally, there is a Bingo Gone Bonkers game with Mariam T from 6-8 pm, and a LateHER Happy Hour from 8 pm to close offering BOGO Token deals on drinks (excluding certain choices). The event is for guests aged 21 and over after 2 pm on Saturday and Sunday.

TGIW!

Join us at Gossip Grill on February 26, 2026, starting at 6:00 pm for $4 Thirsty Thursdays. Enjoy $4 well cocktails, $4 16oz drafts, and a Philly cheesesteak with fries for $11.50. The event offers a great opportunity to unwind with affordable drinks and food in a lively atmosphere.

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

Join us at Gossip Grill in Toronto for the Heated Rivalry Viewing Party on February 26, 2026, starting at 6:00 pm. Enjoy watching all 6 episodes of the show on our large LED screen, with seating beginning at 6 pm and episodes starting at 7 pm. The event features a $5 ticket that includes a complimentary glass of house wine or bubbles. Experience a night of drama, scandal, and sizzling tension in a lively atmosphere.

Heated Rivalry Viewing Party

Main room pop anthems, front room karaoke, and video games on the patio with Mario Kart & Smash Bros.

Pop Rocks Thursdays

A party with pop music, karaoke, and video games on the patio.

A free meal program for people aged 60 and above at The Center.

Join us in person to catch up with friends, enjoy lunch, gather resources from Center staff, and connect to our amazing LGBTQ+ Community.

50+ & Better Together Senior Drop-In

A social gathering for LGBTQ+ seniors to enjoy lunch, connect with friends, and access community resources.

Join us at Urban MO's Bar & Grill in San Diego for the RuPaul’s Drag Race S18 Viewing Party on February 27, 2026, from 19:00 to 22:30. Experience an exciting night of entertainment celebrating the latest season of RuPaul’s Drag Race. Tickets are available for only $1, with seats reserved through tickets going on sale Mondays at 12 PM PST. The event is part of the viewing parties category and will be held at Urban MO’s, located at 308 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103.

Urban MO's Bar & Grill

Rupaul’s Drag Race S18 Viewing Party

The Kings & Friends Drag Show is scheduled for February 27, 2026, starting at 20:00 and ending at 22:00. The event takes place at Gossip Grill, located at 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103. For more details, visit the event page or the Gossip Grill website.

Kings & Friends Drag Show

A nightlife event at Gossip Grill featuring a full nightclub experience with rotating DJs. The event offers a full dinner menu available until 10pm, with a $15 cover charge after 10pm. The event is scheduled for February 27, 2026, starting at 21:00 and ending at 00:00.

Finger Me Friday

Join the Uncorked & Unhinged Wine Club event at Gossip Grill on February 28, 2026, starting at 15:00. The event features a wine tasting with five 4oz pours of carefully selected wines from Caymus Vineyards, hosted by Mariam T, including a Wine About it Raffle and Gift Swap. Tickets are priced at $40. The event is held at Gossip Grill, located at 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103.

Uncorked & Unhinged Wine Club

Join us for Sapphic Saturdays, a woman/queer club experience at Gossip Grill in Toronto. The event takes place on February 28, 2026, starting at 21:00. The venue is open until 2:00 AM, with the kitchen open until 10:00 PM. Entry after 10:00 PM costs $15, and bottle service or VIP tables are available. This event is part of the weekly Saturday night lineup, celebrating LGBTQ+ community and culture.

Sapphic Saturdays

An event titled 'FLUID w/ Kurtyka!' featuring performances by Twin, Kanna, QooLee Kid, and K-Swift. The event takes place on Saturday, February 28, 2026, at Rich's San Diego, starting at 9:00 PM and ending at 4:00 AM. Tickets are available for purchase online, with general admission priced at approximately $17.91, including fees. The venue is located at 1051 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103.

FLUID w/ Kurtyka!

PFLAG San Diego County is offering scholarships to LGBTQ+ high school seniors, undergraduate, and graduate students residing in San Diego County. There are up to 22 scholarships available, including two specifically for community college students and two for certified vocational or trade schools. The application details and requirements can be found at www.pflagsdc.org/scholarships. The event includes a presentation of scholarship opportunities and is open to eligible students.

PFLAG San Diego County Scholarships

Annual Nourishing Cup Power Rally to celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility.

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Transcender Day of Visibility

PFLAG San Diego County Scholarships are now open! Up to 22 scholarships ranging from $2000-$5000 for students residing in San Diego County. Apply online by March 1, 2026.

Scholarship Opportunity for LGBTQ+ High School Seniors, Undergrad, & Grad Students

Lambda Archives of San Diego presents 'The Dykes and Their Friends Between Revolutions,' a series highlighting the histories and activism of lesbian and queer women, with a focus on local Chicana lesbian activists Teresa Oyos and Carolina Ramos. The event explores intersections of Chicana identity, lesbian community, and activism in the San Diego-Tijuana region, featuring personal stories and community-building efforts. The program includes a panel discussion at Diversionary Theatre, located at 4545 Park Boulevard, San Diego, CA 92116, with doors opening at 6:00 PM and the program running from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM on March 3, 2026.

The Dykes and Their Friends Between Revolutions

A panel discussion exploring Chicana lesbian activism, identity, and community building in the San Diego-Tijuana region.

A safe, inclusive virtual space to talk about identity, life, resources, and more. This group welcomes aromantic and asexual folks, as well as anyone who is questioning.

Virtual on Zoom

Aromantic & Asexual Discussion Group

San Diego LGBT Community Center

A virtual support and discussion group for aromantic, asexual, and questioning individuals to share experiences and resources.

A free meal event for seniors aged 60 and above.

Sober Curious is a welcoming space for LGBTQ+ community members exploring their relationship with alcohol and other substances. Whether you're cutting back, taking a break, staying sober, or just curious, come connect, heal, and have fun in a safe, affirming environment. No labels, no pressure. Just curiosity, support, and community. Your goals. Your pace. Your journey.

BHS Office in Hillcrest

Sober Curious

A supportive event for LGBTQ+ people exploring their relationship with alcohol and substances in a safe, welcoming environment.

A party featuring pop music, karaoke, and video games on the patio.

Sober Curious is a welcoming space for LGBTQ+ community members exploring their relationship with alcohol and other substances.

Whether you're cutting back, taking a break, staying sober, or just curious, come connect, heal, and have fun in a safe, affirming environment. No labels, no pressure. Just curiosity, support, and community.

Your goals. Your pace. Your journey.

A community event offering free meals to seniors aged 60 and above.

Join the San Diego Bear Night on March 7, 2026, from 21:00 to 02:00 at EQ (formerly The Merrow) located at 1271 University Avenue. This event is the top party for bears, lovers, cubs, and more, featuring top DJs, sexy cubs, outdoor bars, food options like hot dogs, spring rolls, and burgers, and a lively cruise and dance atmosphere. The event starts at 9 pm and runs until 2 am, offering a fun-filled night with music, dancing, and socializing in the heart of Hillcrest, San Diego.

Bear Night San Diego 2026

A popular party for bears, lovers, cubs, and more, held in San Diego.

Bear Night San Diego

A community event offering free meals to people aged 60 and above.

A free community meal for people aged 60 and above at The Center.

A free meal event for seniors aged 60 and above at The Center.

A social drop-in event for LGBTQ+ seniors to connect, enjoy lunch, and access resources.

A virtual support group for aromantic and asexual people to discuss identity, life, and resources.

A social gathering for LGBTQ+ seniors to connect, enjoy lunch, and access community resources.

Join us for the Ruby Anniversary Ball celebrating 40 years of fabulousness! This event features an evening of entertainment, dancing, and celebration at a premier Toronto venue. Attendees are encouraged to dress in glamorous attire to honor the milestone. For more details and ticket information, visit the event webpage.

The Ruby Anniversary Ball: FIERCE & FEARLESS AT FORTY

San Diego Pride's inaugural fashion show fundraiser, 'Fabric of Pride,' will be held at the US Grant Hotel in San Diego. The event features LGBTQIA+ designers, artists, and community leaders showcasing bold visions to celebrate queer identity. The evening aims to raise $100,000 to support Pride's youth programs, leadership development, and arts initiatives.

Fabric of Pride

The Trans San Diego Pageant is a fundraiser for T4T Empowerment, celebrating trans visibility, leadership, and artistry. It aims to uplift trans and gender diverse individuals through authentic expression and community connection. The event is scheduled for March 29, 2026, starting at 17:00, and will be held at The Rail, 3796 Fifth Ave, San Diego, California.

Trans San Diego Pageant

Trans San Diego Pageant and celebration for LGBTQ+ community with sign-ups for contestants, categories include interview, presentation, talent, best dressed, and live Q&A. Hosted by Victoria Castro & Whorchata.

The Rail

LUMINOUSA: A Fundraiser for T4T Empowerment

Join us on Tuesday, March 31, 2026, from 16:00 to 19:00 at Oceanside Civic Center Plaza for the 2nd Annual Nourish Our Power Rally in celebration of Transgender Day of Visibility. The event aims to raise awareness and support for the transgender community, featuring community gathering, advocacy, and visibility activities.

Transgender Day of Visibility - Nourish Our Power Rally

Nationals are coming to San Diego!!! Kickball, Dodgeball, Pickleball, Soccer, Volleyball, Softball. Last day for early bird pricing for the big tournament!

The California Classic

A pickleball tournament with divisions for all skill levels happening over three days.

Opening party for The California Classic.

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The California Classic - Opening Party

A party to celebrate the opening of The California Classic event.

Softball tournament with divisions C, D, and E. Games on April 4th and 5th.

Santee Sportsplex

The California Classic - Softball

A kickball tournament with different skill divisions happening over two days.

A 2-day kickball tournament with divisions for all skill levels, held at Santee Sportsplex, featuring games on April 4th and 5th, 2026. Includes an early arrival party, opening party, and awards ceremony.

The California Classic Kickball Tournament

Closing and awards party for The California Classic.

The California Classic - Closing/Awards Party

A party to celebrate the closing and award ceremony of The California Classic.

A virtual discussion group for aromantic and asexual people to talk about identity, life, and resources.

A sexy party for men who love men, featuring music, daddies, bears, and more.

BRUT Party San Diego

Join the 18th annual San Diego Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast on May 22, 2026, from 07:00 to 09:30 at the Town and Country Resort in Mission Valley, San Diego. This event coincides with Harvey Milk’s birthday and is organized by the San Diego Harvey Milk Breakfast Organizing Committee. Tickets will be available for purchase starting February 2026.

Town and Country Resort

San Diego Harvey Milk Breakfast

The event features two major parties during San Diego Pride weekend: the SubWOOFer Party on Friday, starting at 9 PM with go-go bears, shot specials, food vendors, and outdoor lounge; and the Furrageous Party on Saturday, also starting at 9 PM, hosting nearly 1,000 attendees with three levels, a full food menu, and the woofiest, burliest atmosphere. Both events are held at venues to be confirmed, with additional activities including guest DJs, outdoor lounges, and VIP options. The event promotes staying close to the downtown district and recommends early hotel bookings due to high demand.

Furrageous & SubWOOFer San Diego Bear Pride Weekend

A gear-themed party during Comic-Con weekend for all men who love men.

San Diego

Upcoming Events

Congregate Meal

Bingo Gone Bonkers

LateHER Happy Hour

LateHER Happy Hour

TGIW!

Congregate Meal

$4 Thirsty Thursdays

Heated Rivalry Viewing Party

Sports Leagues

Community Groups

Businesses & Venues

Barrel & Board

Babycakes

Bluestocking Books

Diversionary Theatre

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